Stepping through the mirror.

Every so often I think that writing this blog is cowardly! Then I think I should make a complaint to his ethical body. That I should step forward and see how the judgment goes. But then I remember exactly why it is I'm not doing that, and why it can't happen. And then I start to ask, what needs to happen instead? I would like to receive an apology. I certainly deserve one. When I feel that I am being cowardly, I read his published articles. They don't provide any definitive way to identify factor X, but there are enough of his statements (things he said to me), expressed through his fictional case study characters, to remind me of the underlying misogyny. Denial has become one of my favourite subjects as a result of my experiences with Kit - so let's have a brief run through of how denial is used. Person A tells person B that when A does x,y and z, there is a serious problem. Person B feels accused... If I said, 'Kit, when I left the last session I was practicall...